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As I was doing some research for a post about free span buildings, I came across posts and ads about “Mother’s Day” contests. It’s on the 13th yet I don’t have the courage to join any of them because of so many personal reasons.

Then, I asked myself this, “how are you as a mom?”. It took me a while to answer the question I made for myself.

Am I mean?, do I spend much time with my kids?, do I provide everything that they need without sacrificing the time that should have spent with them?

You see, like every mom I know, I am not perfect. I get tired, irritated and I cannot give them everything that they WANT. Running a bake house and doing all kinds of online tasks can be draining and nerve wracking. It’s like that every day and it is never easy. BUT, I make it a point to spend quality time with my kids.

When I left the corporate world 4 years ago, I vowed to work from home so I can spend more time with my then only child, Yona, so I can see her grow up. And I guess I am successful in that area.

Perfection is not attainable in every aspect but it doesn’t hurt to try, to at least become the mom that your kids need. What makes me so proud is the fact that I see them every freaking minute, from the moment they open their eyes in the morning until they close it at night. I seldom go out and when I do, for sure they will go with me.

This morning, I asked my eldest daughter this: “Am I a good mom?” and she replied “No, you’re the best.”

Wow. I guess, I am  doing my job well.

That’s us watching The Walking Dead Season 2

The special mother’s month is about to end so this week’s Mommy Moments theme is “Motherhood”. How has motherhood changed me?

I was 24 and at the peak of embracing my liberty when Yona came. No she isn’t an accident – she’s a gift. But to be honest, having her was not part of my plans then but Marcelle had it all planned. He was ready (to Dada: were you?), but me? No, because I was having fun! I was out every single night with friends, particularly Sally and Uela. We’d go clubbing like there’s no tomorrow! and then it happened.

Motherhood has taught me to be strong, to care for others aside from my self, to extend my patience because like newly married couples who came from different families, we have our share of misunderstandings, too. Not only that, I almost gave up during ‘adjustment’ period. It went on for about 2 years *sigh*

Marcelle and I were so alone on our journey to marriage and parenthood. Not that our parents were not there but because that’s how we wanted it. We want to learn on our own – to be on our own and thanks God, we did it. It may be a roller coaster ride but it’s all worth it.

I have written every single pain somewhere but I know how unfair it is for Marcelle if I share it here

This angelic face made it all so worth it!

Fast forward 2010.

I am now a stay-at-home-mom to this little kid. She’s turning 5 this year and we’ve been together (at home) since 2008.

It is hard being a mom, no one said it’s easy but seeing her happy everyday because her mom is around and is with her 24/7 makes a huge difference. Her daily I love you’s and hugs never fails to make me forget about the bills, dues and all.

I may not be the usual SAHM who just waits for her husband’s salary (oh how I really wish that’s my case!), I work hard to make both ends meet, but I am not complaining at all. I’d rather receive a meager salary and be with my kid than earn more but be away from her.

Motherhood has indeed changed me.

Cheers to all wonderful mothers!

(…I’m wondering if I’m still making sense. I feel like I’m babbling too much that I’m no longer making any sense LOL!)

Get your mom a zexy spiffy sleep mask this Mother’s Day!

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Celebrate Mother’s day with Délifrance’s exclusive Mother’s Day Brunch!

On Mom’s very special day, treat her to an elegant brunch at Delifrance! Indulge her with the savory first course of Frittata with Stuffed Tomato, followed by the sweetly satisfying Blueberry Pancakes with Frankfurter and Fruit Plate. All this is served with a Mimosa Mocktail and Bottomless Coffee.

Brunch is served on May 9, 2010, from 10 AM to 12 NN.

The Mother’s Day Brunch is available in 7 selected Delifrance cafes: Alabang Town Center (807-5022), Greenhills Theater Mall (722-2456), C5 Libis (687-2549), Mall of Asia (556-0562), Roosevelt (721-1284), Robinsons Place Manila, and UN Avenue (523-5555).

Due to limited seating, we accept reservations. Visit www.delifrance.com.ph for the Café Directory.